In online dating, there’s a certain situation we hear about all the time: a couple checks out each other’s profile, and they’re both happy with what they see. Soon they’re exchanging emails, and things are going swimmingly. After emailing for awhile, they finally decide to meet – and in person, things fall flat. Maybe one or both of them don’t look exactly like their photo, but even more than that, they just didn’t have that chemistry in person. Great match on paper, but not a spark to be found in the real world.
We’re so accepting of that scenario, but does it ever occur to us that chemistry works both ways? That maybe someone who doesn’t make us swoon in a single photo could cause heart palpitations in person?
I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard the phrase, “Yeah, looks like a great match based on his profile… but physically he’s not my type,” or “She seems really cool, but maybe as a friend. I don’t usually like curvy girls.” Not only are those people limitin…