Most online dating sites have a profile section wherein you are expected to talk about what you’re looking for in your ideal mate. While this section is certainly helpful, it’s what I like to call the “danger” section – the section in which people get themselves in trouble. It’s a section that can make or break a profile.

There are many things you can do to improve that section, and your profile as a whole, but here’s the easiest, simplest tip that will make a difference: when talking about what you’re looking for, don’t talk about what you’re not looking for. It’s really as simple as that. Which sounds more appealing? “My dream guy would take in a Lakers game with me” or “I don’t want to date a girl that plays games or is in it for my money”?

Similarly, while you don’t want to give an endless laundry list of physical qualities you’re looking for (your reader may feel like you’re too picky), it can be easier to send the message you’re intending if you stick to concre …

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